A post in the subreddit r/relationships started when a user shared that her boyfriends gave her an ultimatum…it’s me or your frogs.
Ok so here’s the context…Reddit user chirpchirping, a biologist and avid frog keeper, came to the sub looking for help after her boyfriend told her it was him or the frogs.
My (21F) boyfriend (22M) wants me to choose between him and my life passion (frogs) pic.twitter.com/m8d9yphUo2
— relationships.txt (@redditships) February 23, 2020
Reddit and Twitter users chimed in saying she should dump him instead of her frogs.
Ok but this is clearly her passion why is he trying to squander her fire in her life? I get wondering if you’re important in someone’s life but not caring about the ways THEY thrive is a lil um
— vivi(d) (@ghostlyseas) February 23, 2020
Find someone who supports what you are passionate about!
Ditch the BF!!! Demanding that your partner get rid of pets in order to continue dating is often a red flag and someone who actually cared about you would not be doing that.
— simon feasts upon peeps (@SimonJadis) February 23, 2020
Is 14 frogs too many?
Perhaps.Is 1 boyfriend who wants you to abandon your passion for him too many?
Absolutely.— Olax (@Torkson) February 23, 2020