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Buck Is Ghosting Nancy AFter They Hit It Off At a House Party. Will There Be a Second Date? | Second Date Update!
Nancy reached out after she never heard back from Buck. According to Nancy, she met Buck at a house party in Virginia Beach. Hold it! When’s the last time you went to a house party? Awesome! They really hit it off and things got spicy. Now, Buck is long gone. What happened? Let’s see if we can get him on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Hannah Talk Herself Out of Landing a Second Date With Owen? | Second Date Update!
Hannah reached out after she went out with Owen. They met up in Chesapeake for brunch and according to Hannah, things went really well. They had a nice ending to their date if you know what we’re talking about. But since then, nothing. What could’ve happened? Let’s see if we can get Owen on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Kaleb’s Ex-Girlfriend Sabotage His Date With Shelby? | Second Date Update!
Kaleb reached out after he went out with Shelby. According to Kaleb, things went really well when they met up. When pressed, the only weird thing that happened was that Kaleb ran into his ex. Kaleb said, things were cool and it wasn’t a big deal. Kaleb would love to find out where things took a turn.

Did Lucas Fall in Love With Another Woman While Out With Kristina? | Second Date Update!
Kristina reached out after she went out with Lucas. From what Kristina was telling us she and Lucas met up in downtown Norfolk for some bar hopping and a nice hang-out session. According to Kristina, things went really well, they had a great conversation and when things were over they kissed, kind of. So what happened? Let’s see if we can find out.

Did Dale Drink Himself Out Of A Second Date With Sophia? | Second Date Update!
Caitlyn met Henry on Tinder and said he was different from the other guys she met on the dating site. Caitlyn told us they met in downtown Norfolk and went bar hopping. Things were fun, according to Caitlyn. So why isn’t Henry getting back to Caitlyn? She can’t think of a good reason. Let’s see if we can get him on the phone.

Did Dale’s Unusual Fashion Sense Ruin His Chances With Sophia? | Second Date Update!
Dale reached out after he went out with Sophia. Dale said they met on Bumble and according to him, things went really well. Dale claimed that they really hit it off, nice conversation, and was convinced they would meet up again. Since the date, crickets. The only thing that Dale can think about is that Sophia wasn’t crazy about Dale covering the whole bill. Could that have scared her away? Let’s see if we can get her on the phone.

“Spencer Is A Genuine Guy,” Says Constance. Will They Go Out Again? | Second Date Update!
Spencer reached out after he went out with Constance. Spencer was telling us that he met Constance at a friend’s party. They hit it off. Spencer asked her out and she said yes. They had a nice spa day, followed by lunch and things really went well. The only weird thing that Spencer can think about is that Constance mentioned her ex a couple of times. He would love to find out where it all went wrong. Let’s try and get Constance on the phone.

Were Will’s Jokes Too Much For Amanda? | Second Date Update!
Amanda met Will at a cooking class. I can’t remember if this is the first time someone has met someone else at a cooking class. We’ve had a few painting classes that found love, but cooking? Amanda said they met up for dinner and Norfolk and things went pretty well. Amanda did mention that she felt like Will may have had something on his mind before the date. He seemed distracted. Let’s see if we can straighten thing whole thing out.

Does Hunter Want A Relationship or A Maid Service? | Second Date Update!
Hunter reached out after he went out with Alisha. From what Hunter was telling us that they really hit it off when they went out. When pressed, Hunter can’t really think of anything that he may have said that could’ve scared Alisha away. Let’s see if we can get Alisha on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Stacey Laugh Herself Out of Landing a Second Date with Rex? | Second Date Update!
Stacey reached out after she went out with Rex. Stacey told us that she met Rex on Tinder one night because she was bored. He instantly messaged her and they decided to meet up. According to Stacey, things went pretty well. Rex had Stacey laughing all night long and she had no clue why Rex is playing hard to get. Let’s see if we can get this guy on the phone.

Did Dalton Ruin His Chances The Minute He Opened His Mouth? | Second Date Update!
Dalton reached out after he went out with Molly. They met at Busch Gardens while waiting in line for a coaster. This isn’t the first time we’ve had folks find love at Busch Gardens. According to Dalton, they really hit it off. They went out with Mexican food and the weird thing is that Dalton said that he knew that Molly has a short fuse. Dalton can’t figure out why Molly is ghosting him. Let’s try and get Molly on the phone.

Did Hannah’s Drinking Habits Ruin Her Chances With Spencer? | Second Date Update!
Hannah reached out after she found Spencer on match.com. Hanna asked him out and they decided to meet up. The date was at the beginning of July and Hannah doesn’t really know why Spencer would be ghosting her right now. Let’s see if we can get Spencer on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Josh’s Friends Get Him in Trouble With Suzanna? | Second Date Update!
Suzanna reached out after she met Josh. From what Suzanna told us, they met at a bar celebrating a friend’s promotion. Enter Josh, who starts buying drinks for Suzanna and her friends. They exchanged numbers and went out. Suzanna isn’t sure why he would be ghosting her. Let’s see if we can get Josh on the phone and see where things fell apart.

Did Emily’s Nerves Almost Ruin Her Chances With Neil? | Second Date Update!
Emily reached out after she went out with Neil. From what Emily was telling us they met at a farmers market. After Emily noticed Neil, she made sure to circle back and around and slip him her phone number. Neil reached out and they went out. Emily said they met up at his place for dinner, things went pretty well but since the date, Neil hasn’t reached out. Why? Let’s see if we can find out.

Did Harrison’s Weird Ballet Infatuation Ruin His Chances With Faith? | Second Date Update!
Harrison reached out after he went out with Faith. Harrison was telling us that he met Faith on tinder and had a blast! When pressed, Harrison can’t think of a reason why Faith would be ignoring him. Harrison mentioned he had some automotive problems before the date but was able to smooth things over with Faith. Let’s see if we can get Faith on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Is Julie Cool Dating a Guy 20 Years Older Than Her? | Second Date Update!
Phil reached out after he met Julie while walking his dog. It’s been about a month since he’s heard from Julie and he would love to know why??? According to Phil, things went really well. When pressed, Phil can’t think of any reason why Julie wouldn’t be calling him back except for their age difference. Phil doesn’t believe it’s a deal breaker. Let’s try and get Julie on the phone.

Did Grace Ruin Her Chances With Marcus While Ordering Her Food? | Second Date Update!
Grace reached out after she went out Marcus. They met at one of these young professionals’ meetups and hit it off. Grace told us they met up for sushi in Newport News and things went well. When pressed, Grace can’t think of anything that may have scared Marcus away. Let’s see if we can get Marcus on the phone.

Charlotte Can’t Keep Track of Which Matt She Likes and Doesn’t Like | Second Date Update!
Charlotte reached out after she went out with Matt. They met online and decided to meet up for dinner. From what Charlotte was telling us things went really well. They had meaningful conversations and when I asked Charlotte how the date ended she said he’s a pretty darn good kisser. Sick! I’m kidding. Let’s see if we can get Matt on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Rob Play Himself Out Of A Second Date With Laura? | Second Date Update!
Rob reached out after he went out with Laura. From what he was telling us, they hung out for a long time in Norfolk before Laura decided to disappear. When pressed, Rob said that he can’t really think of a reason why Laura would be ignoring him. Rob picked up the check and said he was a total gentleman. Let’s see if we can get Laura on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Will’s Karaoke Choice Ruin His Chances With Hannah? | Second Date Update!
Will went out with Hannah a couple of weeks ago and hasn’t heard from her since then. Will said they went out for dinner and drinks and karaoke. Will had a blast and still doesn’t understand why Hannah would be avoiding him at this point. Will would love to know where it all went wrong. Let’s see if we can get Hannah on the phone.

Is Vivian’s Local Version of The Bachelor Going to Ruin Her Chances With Jameson? | Second Date Update!
Jameson reached out after he went out with Vivian. Jameson was telling us that they met on match.com because Jameson is really trying to find a woman to spend the rest of his life with. Enter, Vivia. Vivian was all that and a bag of potato chips from what Jameson was telling us. When pressed, Jameson, said that he can’t think of anything weird that happened and doesn’t think he scared her away by doing or saying something dumb. Let’s see if we can get Vivian on the phone.

Jen & Mark Met at An Assisted Living Facility. Were They Doomed From the Get-Go? | Second Date Update!
Jen reached out after she met Mark at an assisted living facility. You heard right, an assisted living facility. Both were there visiting their grandparents and hit it off. I know, really weird. From what Jen was telling us when they met up, things went really well and she would love to keep things going with Mark. Let’s see if we can get Mark on the phone and find out what his problem is.

Did Ben’s Idea For a Fun First Date Kill His Chances with Lydia? | Second Date Update!
Ben reached out after he went out with Lydia. From what Ben was telling us it’s been around two weeks since he’s heard anything from Lydia. Ben really wants some closure. They met on Buble and decided to meet up and Ben’s pool. What a great idea, right? From what Ben was saying, things were super awesome! Ben can’t think of a reason why Lydia might be ghosting him. Let’s see if we can get Lydia on the phone and find out where Ben screwed things up.

Should You Ask This Question On a First Date? Kim Did! | Second Date Update!
These two met while standing in line at the bank. Kim reached out because she can’t get ahold of Joe. After meeting while waiting in line at the bank they decided to go out for coffee. The conversation was so good they met up for dinner and drinks and from what Kim was telling us things went really well. She doesn’t understand why Joe isn’t anywhere to be found. What could’ve happened? Let’s try and find out.

Did Ray’s Weird Roommates Almost Ruin His Chances With Laura? | Second Date Update!
Laura reached out after she went out with Ray. Here’s the weird thing, Laura met Ray after Ray showed up at her friend’s house to work on her toilet. Awesome! They exchanged numbers and decided to meet up for drinks. When pressed, Laura can’t think of anything that may have scared off Ray. So, what’s the deal? Let’s get him on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Sara Talk Her Way Out of a Second Date with Timothy? | Second Date Update!
Sara reached out after she went out with Tim. From what she was telling us, they met online and decided to meet up for some drinks. According to Sara, things went really well. They had great conversations and at the end of the date, there was a little lip action going on. But now, Tim is long gone. What happened? Let’s try and find out.

Did Will’s Lack of Fashion Sense Ruin His Chances With Jamie? | Second Date Update!
Will reached out after he went out with Jamie. Will said that he met her online and they decided to meet up to go bowling. When pressed, Will couldn’t think of any reasons why she would not be blowing him off. When pressed, Will can’t really think of a reason why Jamie wouldn’t be ghosting him. Only one way to find out. Let’s get Jamie on the phone.

Did James Forget His Way Out of Landing a Second Date with Kelly? | Second Date Update!
James reached out after he went out with Kelly. From what James was telling us they met on Hinge. James was telling us that he really hit it off with Kelly and the strange thing was that they knew a lot of the same people. They went to the same high school, and college, and even hung in the same social circle. So where did it all go wrong? Let’s see if we can get Kelly on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Is Paul Way Too Smart and Sophisticated For Suze? | Second Date Update!
Paul reached out after he went out with Suze. They met online and decided to meet up. When pressed, Paul has a few reasons why Suze may be ignoring him. But nothing too serious. Let’s see if we can get Suze on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Is Tyler Too Cheap to Date Rachel? | Second Date Update!
Rachel reached out to us after she went out with Tyler. From what Rachel was telling us they initially agreed to meet up again, but since the first date, Tyler is long gone. When pressed, Rachel can’t think of anything that happened that may have scared Tyler away. Since the date, she hasn’t heard from him at all but did mention she’s seen some weird social posts. Let’s see if we can get Tyler on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Mike Goof Ball Himself Out Of a Second Date With Taylor? | Second Date Update!
Mike reached out after he went out with Taylor. From what Mike was telling us they met each other at the dog park. They hit it off, started talking, and before you know it they agree to meet up and go out. Mike said they had a blast and when pressed he can’t think of any reason why Taylor hasn’t contacted him. Mike did mention that Taylor said he reminded her of someone she knows. Who could it be? Let’s find out!

Will Nicole’s Grooming Habits Ruin Her Chances with Jack? | Second Date Update!
Nicole reached out after she went out with Jack. They met up on Tinder and decided to go check out the new Top Gun movie. From what Nicole was telling us they had a really good time. They took a walk after the date and chatted and she thought he was the cat’s pajamas. So, what happened? Let’s find out.

Did Sal’s Lifestyle Ruin His Chances With Allison? | Second Date Update!
Sal reached out after he went out with Allison. From what Sal was telling us he really wined and dined Allison and he can’t think of a reason why she’s not getting back to him. From what Sal was telling us they had a nightcap and went their separate ways. So, where did it all go wrong? Let’s try and get Allison on the phone and find out.

Does Tyler Lack the Manly Traits Amanda is Looking for In a Partner? | Second Date Update!
Tyler reached out after he went out with Amanda. From what Tyler was saying they met at a soccer game. Tyler was there watching his niece while Amanda was watching her boys. Tyler asked her out, they had a blast and now Amanda is long gone. Tyler hasn’t heard from Amanda in two weeks and would love to know where it all went wrong.

Did Jake Scream Himself Out Of Landing a Second Date with Melissa? | Second Date Update!
Jake reached out after he went out with Melissa. The first date was amazing according to Jake. It’s been a couple of weeks since they went out. Jake is completely clueless as to why Melissa is long gone. They met at a graduation party and hit it off. Things went really well if you know what I’m talking about. Jake needs help. Let’s see if we can get Melissa on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Victoria Didn’t Read The Entire Bio on Ben. Will She Regret it? | Second Date Update!
Victoria went out with Brian and from what she was telling us, it was almost perfection. I know, I don’t believe her either. They met on plenty of fish and since the date, Brian is long gone. When pressed, Victoria can’t think of anything that may have scared him away. Let’s see if we can get Brian on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Mike Play Himself Out Of a Second Date With Brook | Second Date Update!
Mike reached out for some help after he went out with Brook. From what Mike was telling us he met Brook at a house warming party and asked her out. Mike swears they had a blast and he can’t think of any reason why Brook would be ghosting him. Let’s see if we can get Brook on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Nick Skip Town After He Went Out With Diana? | Second Date Update!
Diana reached out after she went out with Nick. Diana and Nick actually work together and from what Diana was telling us she’s had a thing for Nick for a while and finally decided to act on it. He was responsive and they went out. According to Diana, things were great. But, Nick is long gone now, she hasn’t even seen him at work. What happened? Let’s see if we can get him on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Will Gina’s Ex BF’s Prevent Her From Landing a Second Date with Bryan? | Second Date Update!
Gina reached out after she went out with Bryan. They met on match.com and Gina was instantly attracted to the guy because he had a normal picture on his dating profile page. From what Gina was telling us things went really well when she met up with Bryan. The food option wasn’t her favorite, but it went really well. Gina can’t figure out why Bryan is nowhere to be found. Let’s see if we can get him on the phone.

Is Jack’s Fitness Level Going to Ruin His Chances with Danielle? | Second Date Update!
Jack reached out after he met Danielle at the gym. They met up, worked out a little, and Jack asked her for her number. They decided to meet up and according to Jack things went really well. They met up at the oceanfront and had a lovely evening. When pressed, Jack can’t think of any reason why Danielle would be ghosting him. Let’s see if we can get Danielle on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Did Brandon’s Unusual Appliance Ruin His Chances With Lauren? | Second Date Update!
Brandon reached out after he met up with Lauren. It’s been a couple of weeks since they had their dinner date at his place. They met on Tinder and from what Brandon was telling us things went really well. Brandon does acknowledge things were a little strange at the end of the night but doesn’t think it was enough for Lauren to run for her life. Let’s see if we can get Lauren on the phone.

Did Emily’s Weird Request Ruin Her Chances With Robbie? | Second Date Update!
Emily met Robbie at the DMV. Actually, she met Robbie in college but they ran into each other at the DMV. What a great place to catch up, you have hours to wait! According to Emily, they really hit it off. However, since the date, after the DMV, Robbie hasn’t been around at all. Emily would love to know what scared him off. That’s where we come in. Let’s see if we can get Robbie on the phone.

Did Brianna Talk Herself Out of Landing a Second Date with Ryan? | Second Date Update!
Brianna reached out after she went out with Ryan. From what she was telling us, things went really well. Brianna was the aggressor in setting up this first date. She approached him. When pressed, she did mention that they had an interesting conversation at dinner, but nothing too serious. Now, Ryan is gone. Let’s see if we can get Ryan on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.

Will Dennis’s Ex Ruin His Chances With Ashley? | Second Date Update!
Ashley reached out after she went out with Dennis. They had an unusual first encounter and hit it off. According to Ashely, the first date was fire. Dennis was a complete gentleman who really wined and dined Ashely. So, why go through all the trouble if you’re not going to call the girl back? Only one way to find out. Let’s see if we can get Dennis on the phone.

Will Rob’s Lack of Work Ethic Ruin His Chances with Caitey? | Second Date Update!
Rob reached out after he went out with Caitey. They had a weird way of meeting up and come to find out they actually went to the same high school. However, they haven’t seen each other in a really long time. Rob said he was a complete gentleman and can’t think of a good reason why Caitey isn’t calling him back. Let’s see if we can help this guy out.

Did Lewis’s Tinder Addiction Ruin His Chances With Olivia? | Second Date Update!
Lewis reached out after he went out with Olivia. They’ve got a weird meeting-up story that has to do with Lewis getting ghosted by his original date, which then allowed him to meet up with Olivia. They talked, hit it off, and decided to meet. According to Lewis, the date was fantabulous! Now, Olivia is nowhere to be found. Let’s find out how Lewis screwed it all up.

Will Chris’s Conscious Prevent Him From Landing a Second Date with Ericka? | Second Date Update!
Ericka reached out after she met Chris at Busch Gardens. How about that? They met while waiting in line and hit it off. Ericka said they spent the whole day with each other and she even caught an invitation back to his place for dinner. Since the meal, nothing, nada, get out of here! Let’s reach out to Chris and find out where it all went wrong.

Will Hannah’s Little Dog Prevent Her From Landing a Second Date with Josh? | Second Date Update!
Hannah met Josh on Tinder. Come to find out, they’re neighbors. They decided to meet up and go for a walk with Hannah’s little dog. They walked and talked and Hannah enjoyed every minute of it. It’s been around 3 weeks and she would love to meet up with Josh again. Hannah has no clue why Josh would be avoiding her. Let’s see if we can help her out.

Did Brett’s Brother’s Graduation Ruin His Chances With Kayla? | Second Date Update!
Brett reached out after he went out with Kayla. Brett was telling us how they met and Kayla really surprised him. They went out to a spot in Norfolk, drank a lot, and Brett said they made out. Nothing weird that he can think about that could’ve scared Kayla away. Let’s see if we can get Kayla on the phone.

Will Jeremy’s Weird Fashion-Sense Ruin His Chances With Amy? | Second Date Update!
Amy reached out after she went out with Jeremy. Amy hasn’t heard from Jeremy since the beginning of May. They had a real strange way of meeting up, but they did and decided to go out. From what Amy was telling us things went really well. But now, Jeremy is long gone. Let’s see if we can get Jeremy on the phone and find out where it all went wrong.